The day my wife was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer was the worst day of my life. It’s something that happens to other people, not us. Well now it has.

One day, fine. The next? Nothing will ever be the same again.

A journey has begun, one you have no idea how to navigate, where it will take you, what will happen on the way, or where it will end.

These fifteen things are what I wish I’d known before it all began. You may find some obvious or of no use, but even if just one is of help, then this will have been worth it.

I hope your journey ends well.

Paul Evans